Having met a guy who had a very, very colourful past - I think what bothered me the most was not so much the guy's past. I'll be honest, I didn't like the fact that he couldn't remember the number of women he had banged - that made me think that women were objects for him.
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Its very likely that the women he banged also saw him as an object and were completely willing and eager to bang him. Since he is been with so many women there must be something special about him that made the women choose him. So you dont need to worry too much about them.
Like I said in your other thread, good for you for breaking up with him because of his attitude. Personally, if it was the other way around and a girl I was interested in had a past, I don't think I would be that bothered. Of course it would depend on her attitude but at the very least I would try to get over it instead of labeling her like this guy did.
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Thats prolly because you have a past a of your own
You're right. When I was in the 2nd grade, I held hands with this girl. I'm ashamed of it to this day. But she was the prettiest girl in the whole class! I mean, all the boys would crowd around her at recess, and she chose me. Thank you for calling me out, that's been on my conscience for years.
Talk about double standards.He wouldn’t have pursued u, but u should applaud his honesty & move on.
His ego was bruised when you rejected him & he couldn’t resist with the msg.
every person has the right to choose the kind of person they want to marry and you did the right thing.
He whatsapp'd me yesterday morning, saying he still wants to try with me, even though before I broke it off I was acting different. He knows why I was acting different before calling it off, so I'm not sure why he said that. He also said, he was going away for business and would call me when he could. I didn't reply as he said his phone would be off. My friends assume he's contacted me twice now, because of his ego, as its usually him who has 'found' flaws in women.
