Yes it is very hard to grasp because you are not honest about which party at heart you support. The motive "Hindu Muslim Sikh Easie" sub ko mera salam as long as it towed your line of thinking means you are either one big confused person or you don't have any direction at all, like a ship without a radar wandering for whole life without any aim or purpose. Well good luck to you.
Like I said, it is really hard for you to develop the nationalism at this age and with your intellect level it is almost next to impossible to understand that a person can be be loyal to causes and not personalities, but i totally respect you and acknowledge your right to have any tom, dick hary or bhutto and zardari to be your god...