Too much in love

[BombShellBabe]

Re: Too much in love

Thanks for your suggestions. I will try to avoid from romantic songs because I feel like they are influencing me greatly.

If I act this way, it basically means that I am taking the risk by allowing someone to hurt me. I should be strong enough not to let the current situation distract my priorities. This love and attachment thing is so weird because I would be sharing my entire life with him. Seems like that I can’t control my hormones.lol

I have had a horrible experience in the past where I have given so much to a guy and end up hurting myself badly because of emotional attachment… I really do not want to make that mistake with my potential husband. It is hard to control.

@redvelvet

Bb,

If you’re seeing that you’re losing yourself, be smart enough to push the brakes now. The more emotionally attached you get, the more hurt you’ll be if this rishta doesn’t take place. Keep yourself busy with school, work, and other things. Especially focus on namaz/ibadat etc. You have to push yourself to become detached; it’s a conscious effort you have to make on your own, nobody can do it for you. Maybe take a break from the romantic songs because they don’t distract or keep you busy; instead they make you fantasize even more about him, the relationship, and a future that may or may not take place. Listening to them may be fun, and it may feel good, but it’s not helping you. Having made the mistake myself, it’s not wise to love anybody to the point that everything else in your life, including you, take a backseat. Don’t lose yourself like that…people and relationships are neither permanent, nor come with guarantees.