Re: Tolerating the wrong ..
If someone shows greater compassion to me than I do to them I would conclude that they must have been reading the Qur’an. I would not settle before I have treated another person with greater respect than they treat me with … or at least I try. It is not because I see that as superiority of my religion, but because I believe that if I truly consider my religion as truth I should follow it - and it teaches me to deal with others better than they deal with me. You see hypocrisy in me, perhaps there is, but my faith at least binds me for not sending you the same sentiments, or else you could use that as a reason for not listening to me. And if you do - then on the Day of Judgement I would have to answer for that.
If you were in my home, or in my protection I would not be allowed to betray that … I would be expected to defend you with my life …