MA! Count your blessings. My kids still don’t like salan (though now they will eat it after years of trying). They won’t eat the cooked veggies (and frankly, I don’t either esp, if these are cooked separately in a desi way). As for haleem, they don’t touch it and I started eating it after marriage myself. My daughter was your older one, had a wider palate when younger but pickier now.