To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

[muqawwee123]

Re: To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

@Reha

100% of the marriages I have seen where a second wife was introduced into the mix have gone very badly. Children resent their father, first wives are openly resentful and the man ends up with diabetes and a bald spot.

The only way I see a man becoming caring towards his first wife after second marriage is if the second wife was a disappointment. If so, he is now resenting his second wife and may start to neglect her. How is he fair with both?

The “may” and “coulda, woulda, shoulda” are always out there and its never a good idea to focus on them.

Its about each ones observation. My observation was not in accordance what you wrote, especially in cases like where first wife didn’t have babies. Though I have also seen cases where first wife from rural area denied to live with husband (who was on duty in urban area) and that lead the man marrying a woman in city, but children from both the marriages were not treated with any discrimination.

My point is that outcome of second marriage is not always the same.