To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

[muqawwee123]

Re: To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

@Deeba1234

It seems like you’re insinuating those women are somehow ‘better’ than those who opt for khula..

Just as the man has the option to take another wife she also has the option not to be part of that arrangement.. Maybe the ones who stay are scared of being ‘alone’, maybe they still love their husbands and don’t want to leave.. At the end of the day it doesn’t make them ‘better’ women or ‘better’ Muslims..

Not at all. I just want to understand psyche behind the most prevailing thought in this thread (khula in such circumstances). I don’t believe in either Shokat Thanvi’s role model woman in Behshati Zewar or Umera Ahmed’s compromising heroine.