To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

[Reha]

Re: To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

@muqawwee123

I didn’t say that a woman who opt for khula just because of her husband married another lady is bad by any chance, but I don’t agree to the point that first wife faces abusing situation after her husband marries to another woman in 100% cases. The situation varies from society to society, culture to culture. A husband may be abusive and mistreat the only wife and a person can be caring after getting marries to second lady.

100% of the marriages I have seen where a second wife was introduced into the mix have gone very badly. Children resent their father, first wives are openly resentful and the man ends up with diabetes and a bald spot.

The only way I see a man becoming caring towards his first wife after second marriage is if the second wife was a disappointment. If so, he is now resenting his second wife and may start to neglect her. How is he fair with both?

The “may” and “coulda, woulda, shoulda” are always out there and its never a good idea to focus on them.