To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

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Re: To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

@muqawwee123

just a thought. What do you ladies think of those ladies who didn’t opt for khula when their husbands married to another woman?

I think of them as very patient women…I don’t have that kind of patience.

@muqawwee123

Isn’t it generalisation that after a man marries second lady, he treats first wife like a garbage? There are instances in history as well as in our own observation when this is not true.

No, its not a generalization at all. Its true for most of the situations and 100% true for all of the situations I’ve seen first hand.

Man is not perfect…he was born imperfect. It takes a lot to be a good husband to two different women and their children. The idea of “being just and fair” to both sounds nice when spoken and written but its a lot harder to do in real life.

I don’t think its fair to expect a woman to just be okay a second woman in her husband’s life. She is a human being with feelings, emotions, preferences, goals and ambitions of her own. She wasn’t born attached to a man. She is a separate person entitled to her choices in life. Making those choices doesn’t make her a bad person.