To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

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Re: To women who would want a divorce just because husband takes another wife

@Sara_Abeeha

I EXTREMELY EXTREMELY disliked polygamy before my husband married another woman three years ago and I hated it like nothing else on the planet. I was in pain for the whole next year. Then I found a blog called Polygamy 411 which is run and frequented by women [Muslim women] living in polygamous marriages. We all help each other cope and have now accepted that this is Allah’s will for us, we are not to question what Allah has written for us in our fates.

I was initially going to divorce but the bloggers advised me, why would you let the other woman win by taking all yur husband? IMPROVE AND WORK ON YOUR OWN MARRIAGE. His marriage with the second wife is *his *business, not yours.

And make Allah your focus in your life, he should be your first love, not your husband. Once you live for Allah everything becomes easy on its own.

I recommend you all visit this great and helpful blog run by an American Muslim revert woman who went through a traumatic experience with polygamy [Its in the section of the blog called ‘‘My Story’’] and she has now after many years accepted it and now lives in peace.

besides fate the 2nd, 3rd or 4th marriage was allowed so that women are not left out alone which is commonly seen these days.

many spinsters are easily found everywhere

also i know a lady whose husband dates every other women and she prays to god that her hubby may bring a second wife and leave the rest.

so 2nd , 3rd or 4th is better in other situations.

its not to feel insecure or degraded

or not the beauty competition