Re: To those who are engaged...stop sugarcoating things...
Parrisenoor
I respect your views...but what ill say is that is your view not the Islamic view which im sure you wont deny...
Impulse justifies her actions through Islam which i think is disgraceful...you compare our relationships through sociological thinking...whilst i compared it using hukm shari...the points which you discuss is how i would discuss with my non Muslim friends...but with a girl who talks about things being sick becuase they are unislamic i will discuss things Islamically...does that make sense?...
So yes i agree with you that there is a difference between what me and her do to normal eyes...but in Allahs eyes both are a sin...
What i do is haram...its just im man enough to admit it...whilst our sister Impulse believes her actions to be acceptable in Allahs eyes which pisses me off...
My friend is with his **GIRLFRIEND **for five years and they are getting married soon...those 5 years were haram pure and simple...just cos you get there in the end doesnt make it right...if i get married to my girlfriend in the end...Allahs not gonna say its ok cos they eventually got married...
Again ends dont justify the means in Islam...so be careful when you say **'THUS RIGHT' **becuase it most certainly isnt...