Maham
May 10, 2010, 6:26pm
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One of my friends is engaged and her mother in law is so intrusive! She is a Sikh girl so they don’t have any restriction of not hanging out before they are married . Her fiance works out of town so she hardly gets to see him. However whenever he is in town and they hang out, the mother in law comes along and sees absolutely nothing wrong with that!! She comes every single time! And if the two of them just go out for coffee, she calls every 10 minutes asking for grocery!! Sure, she isn’t slapping my friend left, right and center but she is definitely making her go through mental torture. When my friend mentioned to her fiance that his mother is being insecure, he replies back saying well that’s a normal reaction from any mother! $%$@!??? Seriously??? Even HE doesn’t think there is anything wrong with her behaviour then why on earth will the mother think otherwise???
Why is your friend still with the guy? She is only engaged, she shud get out of this relationship cuz she can c the guy is not thinking of her mom’s actions as involvement. So instead of later on fighting over this why not make your decision rite now…