To the Sons n Husbands!

[Maham]

@PyariCgudia

Maham, having respect for your inlaws is not the same thing as having them live in your house, or living in their house with your only psuedo-personal space being your bedroom with your husband, and that too, your inlaws can walk into whenever they want.

I’ve seen this kind of think happen in desi families. They walk into the bahu’s bedroom during the day as if they own the place, fixing the son’s stuff as if he’s still a little baby, and cleaning his room. They’ll hang out in the bahu’s bedroom and watch tv during the evening.

Look, it happens. A lot of people live in cramped spaces because they really cant afford a bigger house/apartment. In Karachi, huge bungalows are divided so that multiple families are living in them, and even though the house has a lot of rooms overall, it is pretty snug with 3-4 couples living in them.

I dont know what kind of families you are talking about BUT I was talking about normal families and this is not what happens in normal families.