To the Sons n Husbands!

Deeba1234 · May 9, 2010, 7:34pm

Well Said.

Huh? What kind of logic is that? Just like you have a special place for your parents, so does or should your husband. Nobody is asking you to replace your parents with yr in-laws but i would hope if i am going into a new family, i have same respect for them as i do for my own parents. And you are most welcome to not give me or anyone the reason but you participated in this thread with yr own choice.

And if you really think babysitting is the only advantage of a joint family set-up then i really pity the family you are married to or will be. I just hope if you are married that you chose a family-less guy.

LOL. Sounds more like i have talked about your situation which is making you boil up so much.

Don’t start up the God given right talk with me. As if everything else that God has asked of us, we r doing to perfection. Maybe you would like to be reminded of a girls duties towards the husband?!

And mind you, no Islam tells you to go for a seperation accomodation for your wife if there is no valid reason.

Bit in bold is wrong, it’s recommended not to live with inlaws unless there is a need ie. they’re elderly or lonely.. The joint family system the way it’s practised by desis with DIL moving straight into the inlaws home is a Hindu concept, not a Muslim one.

http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=273&CATE=87

Please stop implying that the joint family system is the Islamic ideal when clearly it’s not. Good for you if that’s what u prefer but to try and make out a girl is in the wrong for wanting to move with her husband into their own home is not fair.