Well Said.
Huh? What kind of logic is that? Just like you have a special place for your parents, so does or should your husband. Nobody is asking you to replace your parents with yr in-laws but i would hope if i am going into a new family, i have same respect for them as i do for my own parents. And you are most welcome to not give me or anyone the reason but you participated in this thread with yr own choice.
And if you really think babysitting is the only advantage of a joint family set-up then i really pity the family you are married to or will be. I just hope if you are married that you chose a family-less guy.
LOL. Sounds more like i have talked about your situation which is making you boil up so much.
Don’t start up the God given right talk with me. As if everything else that God has asked of us, we r doing to perfection. Maybe you would like to be reminded of a girls duties towards the husband?!
And mind you, no Islam tells you to go for a seperation accomodation for your wife if there is no valid reason.