To the Sons n Husbands!

[diwana]

@Shak09

Who considers it selfish? I think you’re mixing up two points which is **COMPARING **love i.e. saying jitna A ko B se pyaar hai utna A ko C se bhi hona chaahye ya krna chaahye. Case in point the love you compared between MIL and Mum.

The key is not to think ‘oh I must expect him/her to love abc as much she does to xyz’. The key is keeping each relationship in prespective aur hur rishtay ko apni jaga rakh kay ‘nibhana’

(God bro you make me sound like a woman now )

Now where have I said its selfish to expect her to love and respect my parents?

I said its selfish to expect her to love my parents’ AS MUCH as her OWN.

There is a difference.

As someone says There is a woman or a child hidden in every man…

I still think selfish is a big word to use here.

I say love both. Ok to love more your own parents but do not have to either show it so openly and be a bit diplomatic or least one can do is not to hate or despise them. Trust me there are in-laws who love their DIL a lot and fight for their rights with their husbands.

I am making both husband and wife responsible here to love their respective in-laws.