To the Sons n Husbands!

[Maham]

@Syraa

What about just wanting your own place and your own space where you can get to know your partner and vice versa without other people interfering? Especially in those first years of marriage.

But that’s my point na, why don’t u want yr own place and space when ur living with yr family?!

And like i said in my earlier post, In-laws have to give their bahu that love n space she needs to be comfortable with them. So there is no questioning that she should get that but don’t come into the new family, the new home with preconceived ideas that come what may, i just can’t adjust with them.

@NaMaan

We might wont’ realize it but financial reasons are reality of our poor Pakistani society . Even our parents were not as well off when they go married and they been through all those tough times . But they still stick together as a team . If they can do it , then why can’t us .

Ya they sticked together as a team cuz of love, care and respect for each other. That’s what i had like to believe and not so that they can work less hard but live comfortably.