to the GUYS! This is about rape..would u leave ur gf/fiance if she was raped??

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Re: to the GUYS! This is about rape..would u leave ur gf/fiance if she was raped??

@Ashy2010

But rapes don’t normally happen with people of good socio-economic backgrounds? Do they? Rape victims usually belong to the middle/ lower class in Pakistan and I haven’t heard any girl in Defence Khi being raped. The news channels from Pakistan usually give such news from small cities or villages. **High class girls in Pakistan engage in ‘such’ activites with their own free will and don’t get raped I guess. **

I guess if we talk about middle/ upper middle class educated people like most of us on this forum belong to, we don’t see much rape cases in our ‘class’ and thus we cannot assume that guys belonging to this class can easily accept such girls. These talks are only talks until God forbids such case happens.

Who said that rape doesn’t happen in upper class. There is difference of dealing the matter. Poor people can’t hide their misery so they become news every now and then. People upper class people use their resources and hide these types of things. Should we always publish these type of news in newspapers and tv. I think its not a good idea. So if you haven’t heard about any victim in upper class, it doesn’t mean they don’t get raped.

Please don’t say that only high class girls engage in these activities with their own free will. Seriously i have seen and heard about girls in middle and lower class who are engaged in these activities as well. Again don’t generalize everything.

@Ashy2010

But we can never ever get any survey done on this topic. Similarly, we can also not conclude on the comments made by desi guys that they will not leave their fiancee after such incidents. Their true behaviour and attitude can only be known if God forbids such incidence happens. And the behaviour and reaction of guys depend on socio-economic classes of the society as pointed out by NomiCA. If anyone knows about one guy who hadn’t leave his fiancee, he was truly a gem but that doesn’t mean all the desi men would do the same. Similarly, if someone heard a guy left his fiancee, he also doesn’t represent the majority.

Talking and doing are two different things. Majority of single desi men still would like to go for never married girls (although there is no survey done and there are exceptions to this, we still know this attitude in desi men exists).

So this is very difficult question. Because of greater awareness and education levels, our society has started to act maturely towards such incidents and things will further get better with time hopefully.

@ZareenKhan

NOT ONLY THIS but the divorced men are getting unmarried girls ages 18-19 even at this time and age . Unbelievable isnt it but so very true!

p.s its happening in arranged setups thats why the shock.

Marrying a never married girl and marrying a raped victim are two different things. If you are talking about divorcee and widow girls then yes DESI men preferred never married girls because they think if you were engaged or married with someone you must have some emotional attachment with him. Or they think about things due to which girl got divorce. But to get married a rape victim is totally different.

AS far as news are concerned i heard about one case where girl got raped in front of her fiancee (may be i am not sure but the case was very famous). Her fiancee got married immediately after the incident thats a example of good DESI man.