Marrying any one who has a good steady income will involve a lot of give and take. I married a doctor and I have seen days during his residency when we didnt even have money for diapers because doctors at that stage make pittance.
And yes you do get a more comfortable life than some, but that isn't all there is to life. If money ends up being the focus of the couple or the family you are losing the most significant focus, being a family.
Any person who is hard working, will find themselves working long hours. I have a family of engineers, accountants and doctors and all the wives have the same complaints..our hubbies are never home!
Its not what the husband does that should matter. It should be what the persons personality is like. An average salary guy could potentially keep you happier than a rich one can. He has more time to give you and where he lacks in money, he may make up in gifting you with lots of love.
The only thing that being a doctors wife seems to have, in the eyes of parents anyway, is prestige. Parents want to be able to say..."Hamara damaad doctor hai!"
I hope you find a wonderful loving, caring guy...doctor or not!!
I agree with you!!
My husband isn't a doctor...he isn't an engineer...But he respects me for being more educated than him...NO I'm not a docotor....or even have a very very good career...I lost it everything!! He knows that...But he still loves and respects me a lot....
He even wants to study now....His parents (unfortunally) didn't spend a lots of time on his studies or his brothers/sisters....He is a normal business man....at the moment.....earns money with his mehnat..buy things for me I like...even it's expensive...he'll buy it for so that I'll be happy!! Even if his mom/sis are angry with him coz he buy something expensive for me..he doesn't bother...He even doens't tell me but I get to know..somehow..haha
We both have are planning to have a business together...The reason is that we'll be together all th time..and 2nd we both have experience running own business...
I'm very happy for girls who married a doctor or others having a great proffesion...But I think you guys have a very difficult life....Maybe sometimes even loneliness?
In every relationship it's most important to have respect and love for eachother....great profession or not!!