To tell or not to tell..

[HotTea]

Re: To tell or not to tell..

@Princess121

@Hot Tea:

If the girl you were going to marry did tell you that she was in a relationship.. And you did pester her for details.. And she told you everything..

What would be your opinion of her? Would it change from what it was before? In a good / bad way?

It depends on the details but obviously dones’t leave a good impression. But you should take care of this at the front-end rather than having your husband finding out afterwards(in this day & age it wont be that hard plus you can be easily out-ed by any of your frnds or even previous guy(s) you were involved with).

I can’t believe how remarkably bad advise you’re getting from the women here. I just think in this scenario honesty is the best policy. You will also get the change to guage the guy’s attitude abt your past - if he makes a big deal you can always move on. But after marriage, you won’t have that option.