To set the record straight: the wife must obey her husband

[HotTea]

Re: To set the record straight: the wife must obey her husband

@madinahme

Mr.HotTea I love how you started off saying “A WIFE MUST OBEY HER HUSBAND” and after everyone corrected, you’re now slowly coming around pretending to change your ideas by what you originally meant. It’s okay to say you were wrong, it makes you a bigger person.
Yes in Islam we are required to “obey” our husband, but that obidience doesn’t mean we are slaves or inferior. Before you start yapping away again, my husband studied in Zakariya Park in South Africa and they always say that a woman’s rights come BEFORE a man can state his own. A lot of which woman do is simply for our reward like cooking, cleaning, taking care of the home, living with in-laws, we don’t have to do any of these things. But if we want, a MAN must give us our haq because we have the RIGHT to our own space etc.
A relationship between a man and a woman is give and take, there is not “i’m higher then you” -
Here is 2 cents for you - don’t get married
Consider this HotTea spilled on you!

I don’t know what you’re talking about. I have maintained from the begining and still do that wife must obey her husband as per Islam. Now you can’t force her to. But that would mean that she is derelict in her duties and not fullfining this important part of her faith even though she might be a hijaban (:D).