Re: To set the record straight: the wife must obey her husband
My husband isn’t my employer that I’d be his subordinate. 
We stand next to each other with pride and respect for each other. If he brings me food, I cook it; if he buys clothes, I wash them. Together-together we live in peace and harmony. Yeah when I’m outta control, he can get mad at me but if he’s out of control I have a right to complain. So no subordinate situation here.