Re: To set the record straight: the wife must obey her husband
I am by no means trying to say the ayat is wrong or is interpreted wrongly. The point i am trying to make is that when man overuse this right of theirs then it shouldnot be expected from the woman to obey him.
Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) had 4 wives and all the 4 ladies were good and decent who used to obey Prophet (pbuh)? Why? because prophet (pbuh) was a good husband. even when he knew that “my wife is suppose to obey me” he never used to make them obey them i.e. saying “whatever i have said is right you should just obey me with out any questions”. His acts were good thats why it automatically used to make his wives obey him.