To Laugh or To Cry

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Re: To Laugh or To Cry

@Mamzie

Gosh, if i ever turned into a matchmaker, i would show everyone their real aukat.

I’m still trying to figure out what you mean by this statement. It sounds pretty “elitist” and wrong to me. How is it a matchmaker’s job to dictate someone’s “aukat”? They are in the “business” of finding a match based on the requirements and wants of their “client”…is it a matchmaker’s place to dispense their own opinions on whom their client’s should choose/marry?

I am also in a client driven/sales orientated position. I do my best to advise my clients on what product would suit their needs, but at the end of the day, it’s their choice…it’s not my place to remind them of “their aukhat”

I’m quoting Uzair1’s post here:

@uzair1

On dating sites obese women the size of a small car want no less than tall, lean, fit looking guys.
How do I show them their aukaat?

To which you answered:

@Mamzie

Well they are wrong too! Like I said earlier, the society has become unrealistic hence all these rishta issues.

So it’s unrealistic for an overweight person to marry a skinny/fit person??? Seriously???

Wow.

Thank god there are people in this world that look past physical appearance and are more interested in personality and compatibility.