To Laugh or To Cry

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Re: To Laugh or To Cry

@Mamzie

Its not called not having qualms but majburi for most! They r told by everyone how mid aged guys, even divorced, are getting unmarried and very young girls so that is adding pressure on to them.

All the examples u quoted above are also what this whole topic is about…the age bit got highlighted cuz that is what i read in a post that triggered this topic.

i would still disagree that the age difference thing is a matter of majbori for the most.
most families even girls prefer wide age differences. also most families want to marry off their daughters by the age of 22/23 and they want a guy who is already established and have a stable career and most guys reach this stability in the age bracket of 30-35.

also in older days the age difference of 10-12 years seemed so common and in those days the rishta finding process was not at all complicated neither parents of the girls found it hard to marry off the daughters at the right age, still they used to prefer older guys for the daughters hence i don’t think that the wide age difference thing has anything to do with being majboor.