To Laugh or To Cry

[Mamzie]

Re: To Laugh or To Cry

@S_and_S

I still don’t understand why these particular issues make society so imbalanced because I feel like you are almost categorizing people into specific groups based on what you think is appropriate for them by a judgement call like smart guys should only stay with the smart girls or ugly with ugly (for the sake of putting an example out there, not calling anyone ugly lol.) Doctor with doctor. Construction worker with somebody who works a similar blue collar job etc. That’s personally to me how it seems, that everyone in your mind has a category and I am not sure how that helps change mentalities. Your still considering external factors, things on display for the world to judge if whether or not a person is good enough or not.

Some people do have unrealistic expectations sometimes but that’s where people I think need to reevaluate their own priorities. Reality eventually will hit them. If they’re complaining about their sons or daughters still not being able to find people after years of looking, how does that affect society on a whole? Its their problem I would think. All the while the 30 some year old guy who managed to find his teenage bride is now carrying on with the rest of his life, having babies or whatever, are you still angry at them for their choice of spouse?. Somebody was willing to clearly meet his requirements for their own personal preferences so I guess I am still trying to understand what’s so frustrating about this.

no ofcourse im nt saying that if someone may be nt very goodlooking he/she must not get a goodlooking partner…some may makeup with their intelligence or good education or good personality for the lack of good looks. See asking for atleast a 6-7 yrs of age difference and being fixated over it is something i am unable to understand.

how can it nt affect the society as a whole? When there r so many families worried due to not finding rishtas cuz of these silly demands, it definitely affects the society negatively.