To Laugh or To Cry

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Re: To Laugh or To Cry

@Mamzie

Don’t know what exactly my reaction should be but i guess reading these absurd things make me so pissed that in the end all u’re capable of doing is to laugh at all of that.

So like i promised to help an aunty of mine look for prospects as she has been trying to match likeminded people without disrespecting integrity of either of the families. So from time to time i check the matrimonial thread to see if there are any matching profiles with what she requires and every time i read something there which really pisses the hell out of me. For God’s sake, cut off the hypocrisy! Its just so very annoying to read people sugar coat their demands as if oh these are such genuine demands, they are totally worth it blah blah. Argh.

This might be offensive to whoever but come’on what kind of justification is that my bro is so n so age but require a younger girl cuz he’s so damn lively. ROTFLOL! Epic. Why don’t you have the guts to straight away say you want a younger girl…?! Sharm aati hai? Well aani bi chahiye.

Gosh, if i ever turned into a matchmaker, i would show everyone their real aukat. This is the fault of our society, nobody speaks the truth or doesn’t have the guts to do it. Why can’t the rishte wale tell the involved parties when they are going overboard with their demands? Why can’t they step in to show them the mirror that your demands are not reasonable, etc.

The role of a matchmaker is to help and aid the process but unfortunately they have turned out such a noble profession into a cheap one.

i know where you are coming from but somehow i don’t get why this looking for younger girl pissing you off.
if the guys are getting girls who are even 10-12 years younger than them then it shows that there are girls and girls’s families who have no qualms in accepting proposals of an older guys.
i think it is matter of choice and personal preference and not necessarily an unrealistic demand.
there are other demands that i view as unrealistic that people have like an unqualified guy wanting a professionally qualified girl or a guy who earns less but wants a girl who earns double than him or guys who need the girl from the family where all of the members are on high-fi posts etc. and the girls and the families who belong to lower strata but wants a super rich guy or girls who can not utter one correct sentence in English but wants a guy who is all polished and can speak fur fur angrazi- lols.