Re: To ladies..husband supporting his family
Even if a girl doesn’t consider her in-laws 100% family, she can still consider them 50-70-90% family. Don’t we consider families of our close friends as our own? Ok we cannot consider our in-laws as our real parents and siblings but they are the people whom our husbands love and care for and we can at least try to give them half the love and respect which we give to our parents and siblings.
If we can be polite and good to our friends and colleagues and want to have good rapport with them in general, we can try the same behaviour with them. I agree that it depends on the in-laws alot and these relationships are complex. But we can try to have a reasonably good relationships with them despite the unavoidable occasional disagreements (which we also experience with our own family but we tend to ingore these because they are our family).