To hijabans and non hijabans

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na Saby ...in either case... NO ....there is no forcing anyone in religion....even if makes a request its cool but dont expect me to follow through on that request...until my heart tells me that thats the way I wanna go....religion mein koi force nahin bas

most ppl are pretty firm about how religious they are or arent and to expect someone to change just cuz u want them to is wrong...shaadi hi usse karo jo like minded ho warna na karo

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aap hamesha right baat kyun bolte ho darling! :wub:

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nice explanation in post#21. :k:

Well done! You’re learning fast. :smiley:

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:blush: she said nice thingimajigs about me :sadiyah:

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what about hijabi touareg men? you guys are so discriminatory

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like thee hijabi guy in ur avi? :chai: surrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr surrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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you are making fun of my belief system
I am a touareg and a whirrling dervesh and am tired of the discrimination and lack of respect for my religious views

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did u say something?.. :chai: surrrrrrrrrrr surrrrrrrrrrrrrr

i dont tok to hijaabi men :snooty:

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A girl in love wont have any problem dressing in what ever way her man wants.

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Men are in a no win situation to be honest. In the first instance she can recall the Quran and hadiths about hijab and win her point. In the second situation she can use I am not ready and need time answer..

So, in essence us men can't win and should leave it up to them.

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hear hear! A voice of reason with a romantic message :k:

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No offence to anyone but Burqas and niqabs are a big no-no in my book. Thank God the French have banned them.

As for covering head in public, I absolutely do not see the need for a veil when a decent shawl or dupatta can do the same job :k:

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meh ye sub filmo mein hota hoga. I don’t think any hijabi here is going to take off her hijab as a sacrifice for love. It’s not like she’s going to always wear a burqa infront of him, he can ask her to dress whatever way in private.

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From only the woman?? Why doesn’t the husband compromise and say ‘I’ll support you, do it when you feel ready’.. Someone mentioned if you loved him you’d do it anyway but surely the same could be said about the guy..

And if it’s so important to you why not just marry a hijabi in the first place?? Seriously can’t understand why someone who needs a wife to wear hijab would pick a non-hijabi in the first place..

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All hell tends to break loose in both situations, just the first one is not v.common..

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My comment was more emphasised on myself as a non-hijabi!

From personal experience I believe hijabans spend more time focusing on their appearance then anything else anyway. I know a lot of girls who wear the hijab and only a few wear it properly. Also, I think their is too much focus on the visible appearance of a women rather than other aspects of her such as her morals and beliefs. Quran mentions covering of the head two times (from what I remember). There's a whole lot more focus on other sins so I don't understand why it attracts so much attention.

If I was in lov with my husband and he wanted me to wear a hijab I would happily wear one to make him happy. In contrast, If I was a real practising Muslim and my husband wanted me to take it off I would try my best to reason with him first, try to understand where his coming from. Then, I would come to a decision. It's not like his asking me to change my religion, and it would be a bigger sin to leave him according to the laws in Islam. Anyways, taking of a Hijab doesn't make u a less of a Muslim not if u understand Islam properly anyway.

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Sometimes people, specially guys change after marriage.. some turn towards religion for peace. And THEN they might ask their wife to wear hijab etc. plausible?

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filmayn bhi tu real life se hi banti hayn :(

just kidding.. i know what you mean. Love and religion are separate entities.

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But whatever one says, When in love, people do stuff they wouldn't have done otherwise. In this case, wearing a hijab.

I know I would.

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I m a non hijaban...I have tried once.. but i think i won't be able to wear a hijab..no i m not madiran..I see no harm in putting on hijab..but i just can't. and i don't know the reason.:(

other day i was telling the same to my parents.