Ok…now my two best friends face this problem…they have both been in 5 and 6 yr relationships respectively…
Now what i find so confusing is how the g/f will spend the whole evening with her b/f and then he still has to ring and chat before they sleep…
Lol its like spend the evening…drop the girl home…get back home…and then you have to ring your g/f…
You have spend the whole day together…why do you still need to talk?..
I mean let the man get his rest…
Are any of you ladies like this with your partners…
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
we tend to talk in the evening anyway.....so we sleep after talking. it makes me relaxed to sleep :) but this is not just me....he wants this more than i do... he says he cant sleep properly without talking to me.
Re: To girls…why do you need to talk before you sleep?
may be just to care enough about the partner or loved ones. Feels comfortable and relaxed hearing ur loved one’s voice b4 going to sleep…err and NO i don’t do such stuff 
when I get sleepy ..i forget about everything except sleep 
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
Lol ok...im not talking about a simple goodnight honey...i love you kind of conversation...i mean a proper long winded conversation...
As in it puzzles me that you can be with your boyfriend for a whole day...have him drop you home yet you still need to chat for a coupla hours before bed...
Cant you say those things when you are together...i mean its great having you around and all that but a man needs his rest...
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
im not like that with him.... sometimes we don't even talk for days...weeks... is this normal?
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
just before sleeping for about 3/4 hours is our usual time to talk anyway. and its something we both want....sometimes if i say "lets not talk today...we'll talk tomorrow"...he says he wants to even if its for a shorter time. so it applies to both girls and guys.
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
why dont u talk? is there a reason for that ? dont you miss him if its been that long? personally i have to talk everyday otherwise the day isnt complete
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awww thats cutee…
maybe he doesn’t love me anymore…
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hey wait dont jump to conclusions 
how long have u known each other? did it always be like this…? do you lot meet up or talk on phone? is he busy these days thats why cant talk?
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hezz weird...hez always busy....
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thats it . i m gonna dump himm soon.... its not suppose to be like this rite??.. hai naa?
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
hey itni jaldi kissi ko dump nai karte. tell me if its always been like this or only recently...do you see each other often? maybe hes busy with work or something....have you talked to him about it. you should talk and discuss it :)
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
Rule of thumb: if a guy says hes too busy to talk to you one too many times it means youre not worth the hassle.. I learnt that the hard way :)
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damn now thats a dream girl
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awww…you reminded me of the good ol’ days sniff…i used to write letters on my white board…after talking for hours 
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and then girls wonder why guys run away, :aq:
Re: To girls…why do you need to talk before you sleep?
You both need to find common grounds to talk about. I am pretty sure he loves you a lot. Best wishes.
Re: To girls...why do you need to talk before you sleep?
It probably means that he is fed up with all the talking you did and not listening anything. For women, talking usually means them talking and their's nodding and throwing in a bit of words and expressions.
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No it was just pretty obvious he wasn't into me
He talked too and i thnk i did a gud job of listening as well.:)
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he never knew…cuz the white board was erased. and he was a stupid idiotic jerk anyways…the kind that has a gf on the side plus a mangaitar.