To be or not to be?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Hey confused I think you should totally go for it. After all, true love conquers all! :)

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:smack: Sara, you just ruined my perfect record where I said NO ONE supports confused - now I have to go back and edit my earlier post.

You are a weak man and truth be told, pretty pathetic on top of that.

And yes mods, my comment is a personal attack - edit it, if it pleases you.

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^ :mirch:

itna gussa??

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:hehe: sorry!

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at least I wanted to true to my guppistan, this is the place where i can open my heart

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Nomi, ghussay ki baat hi ki hai confused sahab nay :mad:

And just watch, after destroying two families, he’ll be back with his *dukh-bharri kahani *expecting understanding and sympathy from us :rolleyes:

Opening your heart here is one thing. I get the desire to say out loud/online what’s in your heart.

Insaan agar kisi say dil ki baat na kar sakay, to woh koonway may jaakay baat kehdayta hai dil ko halka karnay kay liyay.

But acting on those feelings and wanting us to agree with your actions, that’s where I draw the line.

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he has been told what needed to be told…so lets chill :mirch: :hehe:

PS..

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there will be no distraction, just some calculated and precise moves which will fit me into their world.

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May the woman who is the object of your affections rebuff and refuse any and all attempts by you to “fit into their world”.

BTW, this is a dua for you, not a bad-dua.:chai:

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again thanks but there wont be any direct attempts, any way what you would do if a teen crush suddenly living next door to you without any direct contacts? and he happens to be your hubby best friend

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I would avoid the person from my past out of loyalty, love and respect for my husband. And if need be, I'd explain the reason for avoiding the other person to my husband.

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i dont see any problem in it as long as you two are planning to keep *the families *involved in yours this 'friendly friendship' approach

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you are very right BUT i cant stop my self when I am able to move and I know that at the end after wasting time and money I will be sitting relaxed (that I give it my 110%.)

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I agree, in this situation we will be talking about diaper sizes or after school games instead of .............

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seriously you sound like a teenager at this moment rather than a grown married man with kids :smack:

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I refuse to grow up (at-least Online)

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So wait, your crush is now your neighbor and your wife's friend?

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I will qualify all of my responses above with one comment: there are a **few rare **people who can be "just friends" with their exes. But that requires that neither person has any left-over feelings for their ex, or any regrets about the failed relationship. If there is genuine closure over the ended relationship and happiness about the person being with another person, then MAYBE such a friendship MIGHT work. But this requires enough honesty with themself and their spouse that they can talk about the role of the ex in their past.

If even one person spends a moment comparing their current partner with their ex or spending time or thought on "what if I had married him/her, how would my life be?" then they are doing a disservice to their current partner.

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lol....
so you want some kind of* luk chupp milaap?? *just u two alone and *poorani yaadain?? *

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nop