To be or not to be?

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Re: To be or not to be?

@Sehrysh

Because even your very presence in her life can be fodder for people to gossip or doubt her character. Separate your life from her life ENTIRELY. You do her a disservice by giving others opportunity to cast aspersions on her character - that’s NOT an act of friendship.

I’ve said and Mirch has said above - how would you feel if the role was reversed and a man from your wife’s past wanted to come back into her life? Would you doubt your wife’s fidelity, would you doubt the intentions of that man (especially knowing how men can care/love more than one women at a time).

thanks but no one knows about it.