Re: To be or not to be?
Then you are a foolish man, and selfish on top of that. Your wife deserves better than a man who remains infatuated with a childhood crush and who wants to make that person part of his life at the risk and expense of his current family.
And funny enough, you didn’t answer the question about how your wife and her husband feel about your rekindled friendship and how you would feel about the mother of your children having a “friendship” with another man.