Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
If a girl has stayed pure her whole life she shouldn’t have to settle for less because the guy couldn’t control himself. Marriage is a huge deal for women and the guy is going to be a life partner not just someone there for a few days.
We have to take his name, and give our kids his name. Of course we want the best that we can get. The ration is slightly not hugely skewed in favor of men, but that doesn’t mean that our choices are limited.
Girls are more emotional then men. While we don’t physically show our feelings, it KILLS us inside. Some girls will take a guy that has slept around because they either have a past or don’t care, are in love, are pressured, and others really are majbhoor, but the rest don’t want a man that sleeps around. Its most of the guys saying that a man’s past doesn’t bother a women but IT DOES.
While I think you might be trying to be helpful by saying that a guy can emotionally support a girl and a girl should marry him, deep in a girls heart there is still going to be the thought that he has slept around. That there was another girl in his life that he touched. I would never be able to get over that.