To all the men who want a "pure" virgin wife

Maham · December 22, 2010, 9:59am

Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife

EDAL…has anyone ever called you a paindu? Because thats the only word that comes to my mind when I read your jahilana posts.

In the Qur’an…your punishment for sleeping around is the same as that of a woman. So no, its not different. Its exactly the same. And even though you have asked for forgiveness and landed yourself a nice, clean vessel through which you can procreate…it doesnt mean you are forgiven. To ask for forgiveness is to mend your ways, change your thought process and realize what you did was wrong. Not justify it by blaming it on your gender or “boys will be boys”. That wont fly when you’re standing in front of Allah swt on the Day of Judgement. Lets screw every woman on the planet, say sorry and marry a virgin. YAY! We’re home free now guys!

You may have asked for forgiveness…but you didnt change your ways or your mentality. You still think of women as objects…clean objects…dirty objects…just objects. And since Allah swt knows everything within your heart…do you think you’ve gotten away with it? Do you think you’re home free and now no one can touch you? Sorry buddy, you have a hell of a lot to pay for. I wouldnt count on being forgiven too much if I were you. Start giving sadaqah and doing other things because you’re far from safe. You don’t have any respect for women…period. That is enough to see your pathetic attempt at being forgiven was half-hearted at best. Its just a gesture you perform after your namaz isnt it? Tawbah is just a motion for people like you. It means nothing in reality.

If someone paid me a million dollars…I still would never want to be you.

For some people, life is easy because they dont pay for their sins in this world…they pay later…

Very Well Said.