Jolie
December 22, 2010, 12:08am
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Re: To all the men who want a “pure” virgin wife
While I don’t agree with everything EDAL said, I think he was trying to say that, ignoring religion, there is a difference between men and women. Why is it that all around the world, not just in our culture, women who sleep around are judged more harshly than men? It’s because women can have sex whenever they want. How many men do you know that have the game to get sex whenever they want? Very few.
That was his point (I think). A guy who can sleep around has some “skills”. But that point is becoming more moot, especially in the west where even awkward guys can go have sex with loose women, not much skills required.
I’m not advocating premarital sex, but you have to admit that a man has to work for sex, and have some social skills, whereas a woman in almost all cases probably just has to go and ask for it.
That said, not every guy or girl who might have been in a relationship, physical or otherwise, is a bad person. IMHO, if a girl had been in a physical relationship, but her character (morals, values etc) was similar to mine, then I would marry her without a doubt. Usually a person who has slept around has bad values but not always. Don’t be so quick to judge people, men or women.
What?
Pretty laughable statement. No, woman can’t have sex whenever she feels like and whoever is available. Exactly what kind of social skills men need to book an hooker? Even science says woman invest emotions in sex whereas for men it could be purely physical by all means, this is one the main reason why woman’s infidelity is taken lot more seriously.