i’ve heard that too…Islamically, there’s only a nikkah and a walima, no mehndi/mayyon blah blah…but anyway…nikkah is the actual legalness of it, and walima is to introduce the couple into society as husband and wife… 
why dont you leave it to your new wife ask her what she wants to do and if she said go to sleep then dont regrate why you asked.
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why dont you leave it to your new wife ask her what she wants to do and if she said go to sleep then dont regrate why you asked.
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Being submissive on the first night of your relationship, which would last a lifetime, inshallah, is not a good idea.
Dude, just remember - in the relationship between you and your wife, YOU ARE THE MAN; WHAT YOU SAY - GOES and ofcourse at the same time you have to be considerate about your partner & the neighbours.
hahaha..i’m afraid to ask what happens next..
it would be deleted lussi, so let every1nz imagination run wild while it lasts
It's kinda weird, but only 1 of the 8 married girls I'm close to ..uhm.. had the strength to do anything else besides sleep the moment they got to their rooms on their wedding night. Considering most of these girls had to stand up (even if they did sit for a lot of the time it really doesn't make a difference when their lehengas are over 10kgs in weight) with so much weight on their backs and such high heels in the heat of the spotlights with a ton of makeup and jewelry on them on a stage for 6 hours straight after 2 days of occasions and dinners - I think they usually just want rest more than anything else.
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it would be deleted lussi, so let every1nz imagination run wild while it lasts
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ohoo malik yaar.. mix ur doctor doctor reply with derogatory remarks abt Islam and Arabs..the mods & admin aint gonna delete it then..uve been here for more than two years..u shud know this by now..
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Wife - Yalla ya habibti
Husband - Ana wayed kabeerun
Wife - Dardun shadeedun
Husband - Laat sawwi khauf, bus do inch mazeedun
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haha…
You cannot share a greater level of intimacy with your spouse than when you are making love (which is sometimes different than having sex). If you cannot or will not share that level of intimacy with your wife on your wedding night, IMO something is terribly wrong.
All the stresses associated with planning the wedding are over. You've probably both shed a tear when you said "I do." All the guests are gone. Now is the time for intimacy. If you start with a kiss and some tender touching, the rest will come naturally. If it doesn't....you can probably find a $100 hooker down at the lobby bar.
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Wife - Yalla ya habibti
Husband - Ana wayed kabeerun
Wife - Dardun shadeedun
Husband - Laat sawwi khauf, bus do inch mazeedun
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Is this^Arabic lang?