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*Originally posted by lussi: *
how do u play doctor doctor?
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I'd love to tell ya' but don't wanna get banned at a young age of ~450 posts + One of the Mods or admins MehnazQ has been very nice to me, so don't want to ruin that. PM me and I'll detail the doc doc.
are any of the men who have replied so far actually married?
[sami rahman] you need to discuss this issue with your partner/fiance/wife, as only you and her will be there...are you really going to follow any advice given to you here?
trust me you dont need us to tell you how to go about it....it will come to you when the time will come.....do you have any married friends that can tell you about it?
well,
i think it all depends on both of you. if you know eachother quite well then it may be option to try it out first night.
if not then just give it time and take things as it comes. dont make hard and fast rule that you ahve to do it right now or never. :)
and if you dont know eachother and then going straight for it i dont know how people can manage it without having a love or near love feeling for eachother.
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*Originally posted by yarfraz: *
I've heard that Walima is not possible untill there is a relationship developed .... And its true ... Trust me .....
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yeh i heard a smiliar kinda thing that nikah is not possible until their relationship has consummated or watever...
how do you know it’s true? have u gone up to every married couple at their valima and asked them if they had sex? do they check the girl or guy for fluids or broken hymens???