my time is about to come sooner or later to get married. but what i was wondering was…did u guys make love on the first night? or is it all exagerrated thanks to the bursting media which come up with stuff like suhaag raat and stuff. and is it the husband who should make the move or the wife? what if shes not in the mood? 
how do i talk to her about getting laid? 
I won't make love on my first day. Even if I am getting married to my current gf who i've slept with and comfortable with. I think the first couple of days should be spent recuperating from all the tensions that one has before the wedding. I would feel like such an animal going after my wife on the first day. My advice to you would be to wait a couple of days.
just tell her, "mein tumharay bachey ka baap bana chahta hoan"
or
if the girl is fat, then stuff some food in ur pants
or (this works with all girls)
just put ur wallet in ur pants..mood or no mood..headache or no headache..this will always work
yeah, this would work too. Who knows, maybe I would like to try these ideas myself.
Lussi, if you don’t mind my asking, exactly how old are you?
23 :)
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23 :)
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no offence dude but in this forum you don't come across as a person who is in his mid 20's.
wow.. 23 years of experience 
well atlanta, i am very hurt that i don’t come across on this board as someone in his mid 20s. I hope I can live with this disapointment for the rest of my life. 
ahh sarcasm. Another sign.
guys cmon gimme a straight reply...try not to get offtrack pleesh
sami jus chill man..just wait for that day and take things from there...
yes but…how? 
if u do it, she'll say u r a pervert and have just 'that' on ur mind....
if u dont, she'll think u've got some problem....
helped???? :p
Hmm.... i agree wid Atlanta.
It's not necassary to have sex on ur first wedding night.
Play cuddly bear and doctor doctor the first night
Have oral sex the second and getto know each other a bit more sensually.
Then bring in the big guns and all.
how do u play doctor doctor?
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just tell her, "mein tumharay bachey ka baap bana chahta hoan"
or
if the girl is fat, then stuff some food in ur pants
or (this works with all girls)
just put ur wallet in ur pants..mood or no mood..headache or no headache..this will always work
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Lussi, your view of women is truly disturbing.
It doesn't matter what we did...what matters is how well you know your spouse, how comfortable you are and how tired you guys are from the wedding...my advice...make sure its a good time for you and you can take it slow....because tension makes it more difficult. so....chill out.. making love on the first night or not is the least of your worries....find a girl...
Just strip. She will get the idea, and if not say you like to sleep in the nude. Either way you sleep freely.
^ sounds like a plan 