I get that our society needs to get out of the mentality that a divorced woman is “used goods” or will never be a good life partner…the kind of thinking that encourages women to stay in abusive situations etc..
but Something about saying someone who’s had bad experiences will be grateful for a knight in shining armor…it’s a little condescending.
A man who marries an abused/battered/divorced owman…doesn’t make him some kind of farishta. Every marriage requires work and compromise and will have some arguemnts…it’s about compatbility…period.