Re: Time to man up!!!
Not expecting more, the pettiness disappears your perspective changes and you focus on the important things in life, one would be a Jerk to expect more. My friend married this Kashmiri goddess, tall, fair, 5-9’, long hair, she was an imported bride, married to a good-looking abusive guy. Second time around, best looking guy was not the priority, kind, gentle, caring was what she was looking for. She converted to Islam, you can sense the love as soon as you walk in their house.