Re: Time to man up!!!
Right, he showed us. He didn’t constantly talk or brag about his good deeds. He also didn’t try to test/gauge/determine the level of manliness in his companions and other men. Knight, may Allah keep your daughter safe from rape and all forms of harm. May Allah keep her chaste and virtuous, Amin. These are good qualities; there is nothing wrong or shameful in them. One day she may be the “out of the wrapper” girl that inshaAllah a good man will marry and she’ll prove to be a good wife, inshaAllah. These qualities would not make her less of a woman or wife, so it’s best to avoid stereotyping the two groups of females. One has to keep in mind that their own loved ones may be members of the groups they’re stereotyping.
Knight, take a closer look at your threads. Your own posts are nothing short of lectures and essays. And if you’re gonna pride yourself on having shorter posts, then at least infuse your brevity with more logic and humility and less emotion.