Re: Time running out to get married?
Eh, that’s kind of the point. If an individual doesn’t want to look early then of course it’s their right to do so. But it should be with the knowledge (especially for girls) that rightly or wrongly, it “may” cause some difficulty later.
Early: is early, don’t feel need to define it other than for debate.
Re: accept bad stuff. No I am not saying start looking early AND also don’t have any standards. I also think though people (including myself and family) should have less idealistic criteria.
Agree with your last para/point; but that doesn’t say/imply don’t start looking early.