Re: Time running out to get married?
Ok so teenage years spend on looking for a spouse/getting married, having kids during 20’s/raising them, chilling during 30’s, and traveling the world during 40’s. So when exactly should we focus on non-esstnetial things like college degrees, finding a decent career which would allow us to buy a home, save for emergencies/retirement, pay bills..and of course…pay for all that travel around the world?
And since we all know that no birth control is 100% effective…if kids get hitched during high school, IF the girl gets pregnant, who should be financially responsible for supporting the kids ? I suppose in America they can get on welfare/medicaid etc. which is what many people in this situation do. Are we expecting girls to take high school classes/graduate/start prepping for classes IN ADDITION to managing husband/in-laws/pregnancy/labor-delivery/post-partum issues etc? Or should the girls just drop out of school asap they find “the one”?
It’s the cool 40 year old grandparents who were supposed to be travelling the world. No, wait, they’re raising their grandkids. The one thing desi parents will never have the luxury of is to be free. Parents for life, even if your kid is 50. #truestory ](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=truestory )