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^ Yeah xactly
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It really depends on the sort fo relationship u have.
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Love the way you think and the way you are handling your life right now.
Props to you :k:
MyWish: you are right. It also depend on the kind of relationship you have with your husband. If there is lots of love involve then instead of being selfish be ready to do some sacrifice. I totally agree saimanyc. A mutual undertsanding need to be develop in a relationship. One need to understand that if you are giving him/her a space…it is for their own good not that you r neglecting or ignoring them.
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doesnt absence makes da heart grow fonder?
i like that feeling when i dun get to spend time with him for dayzzz due to his job and then when he’s finally free, we hav such a silly, carefree, lovey dovey romantic evening like long lost lovers:blush: and da feeling juz lingers on for a few days… and da cycle goes on 
So da only thing i complaint abt at times is him spending way too much time with his buddies 
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I make time for her. My schedule if i worked as much as my co-workers and concentrated on my work like i was single, well lets say there would be a divorce in the works very quickly.
Making time is what matters. It doesn't need to be 3 hours or even 3 seconds. As long as the other person feels appreciated it is important.
I have spent a good 24 hours without contacting my beloved and trust me there was hell to pay. You just need to make the time. Not find it. Make it.
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24 hrs??? That's it ?!?!
I need tips from ure beloved.. can I talk to her ? :(
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Lol. I will check with her. We spend alot of time together. During my work schedule as in 9 to 6/7 we are in touch 3 or 4 times a day. So 24 hours no contact makes her worry. A worried beloved = a very dead fiance.
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for me being together 24/7 isn't an issue but other things are.
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I seriously feel in relationships everything should come from heart. A feeling that you HAVE to call is horrible.
Woman will always complain that their husband is not spending time with them thats for sure.
I have seen few relationships myself and sadly after reading few people [my reading could be wrong ofcourse] I have seen if the girl they married is their first love. They will go out of their way to please her and her parents. I know a friend of mine her husband is mashallah Well off he helped her parents to buy a brand new house in NY, which are extremely expensive. The wonderful thing is guy did it on his own my friend didnt have to say a single thing. Bhai loves her so much and they live mashallah amazing life.
Then i see relationships where i see girl is totally committed she wants her husband to laugh, hang out, and have fun with her. But he seems dead from inside as if he could be in a better place then where he is now. I can never say this to my friend unless i see something majorly wrong with the dude. All she does is complain.
Remember all of our actions and reactions are due to our past. We just can’t let go of it - its tough..
Furqan - woman and complains we come with a package. *grin
There is always room for love all you have to do is move few things around 
agreed with saimanyc as well. love between two souls :love: - a feeling when someone is not here but you still feel they are around you :~)
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I never complain and you guys know who to PM for confirmation :o
I know that if he had time he would def call me.
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All depends on the two individuals. Theres not time frame, not all people are alike, and definately not all relationships are the same.
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Sara your wants and needs are important in a relationship. And you should be able to express them. He wont run away if he knows whats good for him, I bet he’ll be happy to discuss such stuff with you :).
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I don't know whom to PM... plz elaborate
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yeah me neither…whom to PM barfee 
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now coming back to topic...i think when 2 ppl love each other and care for each other....they MAKE time and if for some reason it is not possible for one partner to contact the other for a day or 2, understand that there might have been some serious busy-ness due to work or whatever but dont feel insecure or dont get into fights....like saimanyc said, be confident and have trust in each other and nothing will go wrong:)
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yeah mywish...lets do that.
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I just did... no reply.....
she's havin fun torturing us like dat...
why o why