Ok, this is for people who are currently involved in relationships, married or are talking to their potential lovers.
Do either of you complaint about not finding time for each other?
Should a husband call his wife in morning when he has reached his work, and then call her again at lunch and then again before leaving work? How much space is enough between gf/bf or husband and wife? Where do you draw the line? Do he/she complaint about you not spending time with them?
well, I would get annoyed if my husband would call me up for every single thing … I would not like it I would like to have my space and would let him have his space too. Umm can’t think no more
Hmmmmmm interesting… so should the wife call his husband to find out if he reached work in morning and then at lunch and then before he leaves his work? How much space would u give ur husband?
Do either of you complaint about not finding time for each other?
Should a husband call his wife in morning when he has reached his work, and then call her again at lunch and then again before leaving work? How much space is enough between gf/bf or husband and wife? Where do you draw the line? Do he/she complaint about you not spending time with them?
be brave, lets hear your story.......
awwwwwwww it would be actually so sweet if the hubby calls his wifey after reaching his office/work or the guy calls the wifey in his lunch break. I wouldnt mind, it all depends on the kinda relation u have with him/her. The more love the merrier :D
Yes, I would prefer calling him just to check whether he reached his work or not...not in a sense of suspecting him or something but just the thought that he reached safe and sound. Umm.,...about lunch...if I am really caring (which I am not) then I would call to check whether he ate or not ( eventhough I know he is not a kid).
About giving each other space...umm..he might have different interests and I will do too base on which I would like to have my own time out and not bother by my husband and in return I have to think the same way for him.
Do either of you complaint about not finding time for each other?
Should a husband call his wife in morning when he has reached his work, and then call her again at lunch and then again before leaving work? How much space is enough between gf/bf or husband and wife? Where do you draw the line? Do he/she complaint about you not spending time with them?
be brave, lets hear your story.......
i am not in a relationship right now but i don't think i would want my husband to call me every other second....to me this kind of situation falls in the category of insecure relationship....
i know u couldnt even let me fantasy about it for a sec, thanx for bursting ma bubble
p.s: if the guy/gal needs space and is not into this mushy mushy stuff i wouldnt prolly call him in his mid breaks or whtever. I would rather compromise with my idiotic partner
It's quality over quantity anyday. For most of our marriage my husband worked over 100 hours a week and I worked as well. i also travelled quite alot. So we didn't see too much of eachother. We also didn't 'check in' on eachother more than once a day. But both of us are independent and comfortable with how things are.
cooL, now thats a life and then thats not a life either. Ok I can live like that only if I wasnt married...but if I am married I can't spend days without my husband...wats the point of marriage then?:(
Well this schedule was due to his training. We got through that tough time and now his schedule is pretty much a 8am-6pm kind of day with weekends for family. We also have two kids now. So we spend much more time together. But my point is that a marriage is not about physical closeness only. The mutual respect and love we share allows us to feel confident in eachother. I’m ok if he has to go do things. I know he’s doing it all for me and the kids.
It's not really insecurity i think.. its insecurity if u feel he doesnt' care abt u, if hes' dumped u or he's playing with u or something .. but sometimes u love htat person a lot, u jus wanna talk to them forever :(
no we never complain about not finding time for each other,cause neither of us is a workaddict…so we have allways time for each other…and communicate almost everyday with each other(phone, sms, net..), though being far apart (7000Km )
shadi ke foran baad biwi ko busy kar do.. get the baby without wasting time.. she be very happily busy and wont complain..
When i was in States i always called from office and was at home at 5 sharp.. never worked on weekends .. now back home I always call.. still she always complain
My husband and I are with each other every moment as much as we can. And, when we can't be together, yes we do talk on the phone as much as we can. It's not insecurity. It's when you can't get enough of each other and no matter how much time you have together, it's just not enough and you can't help but want more.