This is one example of what I mentioned in my other post in this thread. Yes, we know white people can be just as savage and like to act like they aren’t compared to brown and black people. However,* this doesn’t erase the instances of abuse/other crimes that are committed by brown people. *I know Bobby is veering on white-apologist/bootlicker but it doesn’t really make what he is trying to claim wrong. The abuse that gets tolerated in our community is due to our culture’s misogyny, so it is up to us to fix it. I don’t care what goray say/think, because clearly they have their own misogyny in their culture to deal with. However, trying to dodge critiques here is not necessary. We are a board filled with predominantly desi people, what is the problem in us addressing the realities of our community here?