Obviously i am NOT going to marry just any girl with my eyes closed. Of course, i am gonna talk to her and see if she is what ia m looking for and i am what she is looking for. I guess, my starting point would be lower class (city), or village if no luck then try somewhere else.
I thought you have already chosen a girl from lower class...thats why i said if you love her go for it...
best of luck with it :)
thanks
Now now Lahori99, no need to write d-bag comments. She was only stating something which you have made abundantly clear through a myriad of posts in different threads.
aight i'll edit it.
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I dont understand…you want to marry a girl because she is poor?
So, you feel sorry for her? How long do you think she will be happy with you? She may stay married to you forever but that doesnt mean she will like knowing you married her for sawab.
some of teh girls here posting advice..HAHA
u sound like u do not want him to marrya poor girl or one from village as if ur life depends on it.. trying soo hard to convince him..funny
wonder y pushing it down his throat..
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She may not be greedy, if she's a simple sweet girl from the village then she'll be appreciative of everything! Just look for a girl that you'll get along with, who has a decent character. Education isn't that important - it doesn't help raise kids/clean + cook! As long as you can earn enough to be happy in life then her eduation doesn't matter as long as she is not a 'jahil'! :S
^ so if ur poor ur basically a jaahil gawaar?
Observing the use of the “Yeah Right” icon from other threads on the front page by Aleesha, I am of the opinion that she doesn’t know it’s sarcastic nature.
i was wondering!
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Somewhere I feel like this plan that you have in mind is heavily influenced by the issues you discussed in the other thread. Is that true? Is this your way of doing a good deed BUT also ensuring that you get a simple girl with a clean past?
Ps. I haven't read this thread in its entirety.
I hate seeing misunderstandings on the interwebs. 
Oh and why can’t I see your blog about the 60’s/ 70’s after I posted in it earlier today? Did you block me? 
lol nope i don't block people on my blogs... i have a habit of deleting my blog entries within a day... i don't keep em but I do read all the comments n stuff... so thnx for taking the time out to comment on my rants =p
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the term usually used is "Per Purzay nikalna"...so as BBC mentioned we cant really judge ones character on wealth so I will also conclude that I cant really say a poor girl nikal her per purzay after marriage. it depends on wisdom and knowledge one possess.
Its very common in Pakistan to have 2 wives. One in the village and one in the city. Maybe you are subconsciously planning or thinking the same way. Aap ka sawaab bhi poora hoga aur family bhi khush.
Somewhere I feel like this plan that you have in mind is heavily influenced by the issues you discussed in the other thread. Is that true? Is this your way of doing a good deed BUT also ensuring that you get a simple girl with a clean past?
Ps. I haven't read this thread in its entirety.
since, i wouldn't just marry any girl, i don't think it would be consider a good dead even if i do end up with a girl from poor family. i just think it would work out better.
nah, i don't think so. there are very conservative middle class families in cities, it's not hard to find a decent girl. if i go back home now, i can find few on my block. that's not a big concern. no matter where the girl is from, you have to do investigation.
believe it not i have heard people say lower class girls are awara b/c they try to pick up guys so they can get out of **** hole they are in
you know i often hear about good girls back home can't get married b/c of being very poor, not enough education etc so if she is good girl then why not??
Its very common in Pakistan to have 2 wives. One in the village and one in the city. Maybe you are subconsciously planning or thinking the same way. Aap ka sawaab bhi poora hoga aur family bhi khush.
you know my mind never went there but thanks for pointing this out. since we are talking about multiply wives why stop at 2? why not have 1 here, 2 back home (village/city)
Hmmm good point you have there but to many men this does not make a difference. They don’t care if wife is happy or not what they care if they themselves are happy or not . believe me some husbands do not care what wife is thinking and feelings if she is fulfilling all his needs then that is good enough for them. It does not matter if she is doing all the khidmat of her husband out of love or out of majboori.
what makes you think she won’t be happy with me?? she would like/love me based on how well i will treat her, not b/c i married her. you can’t buy love.