Re: this question is in my head…
LUC: i do not think that ravage did that intentionally. May be it is the way he writes. I do not see any 
or :as: with the name of Imam Hussain either..
and as for your concern, brother remember we can not just ignore the event of Karbala while proving that other Sahaaba Kiraam (RA) got martyred too (Hazrat Ameer Hamzah:razi: for example whose Liver was chewed by Hindah [who became muslim later on though] )
Shias show their love to the family of Prophet:saw: in a different way than we do. No matter how much we have a difference of opinion, the point of the matter remains the love of the same personality. We sunni do not find such mournings and beating of ownselves right as per our beliefs but at the same time, we can not try to prove them wrong by comparing one sahabi to another. That, my friend, we the sinful humans do not have the right of.