Re: this question is in my head...
luc: no, other incidents arent as controversial. we have milaad un nabi, we mourn other people who were tragically killed, we have aa'maal for the Prophet's (and other people's) deaths.
sheraz i might be wrong about this.. but do we have majalis or meelaads for the Prophet? I think I've been to one majlis, but the faza'il concerned the Prophet, and the masa'ib concerned Imam Hussain (tying his relationship with the prophet ofcourse)